What Do You Think They’ll Ask You About?

Some far day in the future, you might be interviewed by your grandchild for school.  It’s a popular assignment, and one I’ve done myself.  I interviewed my grandfather about the Ku Klux Klan (no, he wasn’t a member, but he had information about it that I wanted to include in a report I wrote).  My great-uncle Alvin interviewed his grandmother about what school was like when she was a girl.  Sometimes genealogists interview their grandparents about family history, as I have done with my maternal grandparents and my great-grandmother.  One day, a grandparent of yours will ask you questions.  What do you think you’ll ask you about?

Mine will probably want to know what I remember about 9/11.  On a personal level, they might want to know about my divorce and remarriage.  Maybe they’ll want to know what life was like before everyone had computers and Internet access.

It would be nice if they could ask me what the world was like before world peace was established and hunger and poverty were abolished, but I fear I won’t see that in my own lifetime.  One can’t watch Star Trek without hoping one day…

I think that just knowing that they care enough about what I think or what I’ve experienced to ask about it will make me happy.

Genealogy

I have mostly been working on my family history research over the last week or so. I do this in spurts. I have one advantage over many other genealogists: I started the hobby when I was much younger than most people do. It’s a lot of fun. I have managed to connect with distant relatives who are doing the same thing, and in many cases they have been very helpful and generous with information and photographs. My distant cousin Joe sent me a nice thank-you e-mail after receiving a copy of my great-great grandmother Stella’s diary. I could tell he was a kindred spirit by the way he reacted to it. He felt the same way about it as I do.

Figuring out where you come from is interesting, but I wish I could see some of these people. I wonder if I look like any of them, or if my kids do. My ex-husband resembles his great-great grandfather in some ways. I see it in the eyes and a bit in the shape of the face. My daughter looks just like her father. Hence:

Sarah

Compare Sarah’s forehead eyebrows, and eyes to her great-great-great grandfather:

John N. Cook

Compare her face shape to her great-great-great grandmother:

Margaret Stewart Cook

I think Sarah looks like she could be their daughter, yet she’s their great-great-great granddaughter. She looks more like them than she does me!

This hobby is fascinating. If you haven’t ever looked into your family history, do it while you’re young. We don’t like to face this, but your best source is your elderly family members. They may not be here when you become interested in genealogy late in life. In my experience, too, they love to tell their stories. Give them a chance.

Old Posts

I have now uploaded old posts up through the end of September 2001.  Wow.  Nearly five years ago, this stuff was written.  Five years ago, I was thinking a lot about my own writing and wanting to do more with it.  And I haven’t done much since then.  In five years!

Re-reading my 9/11 posts and looking at the children’s artwork I posted to my online diary brought tears to my eyes.

One of the reasons I wanted to transfer some of what I wrote back then to this more permanent space is that it is really interesting to look back and see who you were.  I wish I still had the diary I kept when I was 15.  I would love to see what was going on in my head nearly 20 years ago.  I really admire Roger for continuously keeping a journal for as long as he has.  I really like his posts when he goes through his journals and writes what he was doing 10, 20, 30, 40 years ago.  But journaling late is better than never doing it at all.

Kerri Strug and Brats in Public

No, the two subjects of my title are not related.  I don’t think.

Kerri StrugAtlanta hosted the Olympics in 1996, and the AJC has been doing all these retrospective articles.  Today, I logged in to see an article entitled “Whatever Happened to Kerri Strug?”  I have to admit that one piqued my curiosity.  Who doesn’t remember how she did that second vault — flawlessly — with an injured ankle?  Who doesn’t remember her coach, Bela Karolyi carrying her out to the podium to receive her medal?  Who doesn’t remember how her performance secured the gold medal for the American women’s gymnastics team — for the first time?  I’m not at all into sports, and gymnastics is pretty much all I watch of the Olympics (if I watch any of it).

I watched the women’s gymnastics vaulting in real time.  It was intense.  Kerri Strug became the hero of the 1996 Olympics right before my eyes.  Now Strug works for the U.S. Department of Justice, speaking to mostly at-risk kids about her Olympic experience.  She also used to teach second grade.  She’s pretty level-headed about her experience:

“I don’t think I can just live on that vault forever,” Kerri said. “Clearly I love going out and talking about it. It was the highlight of my life; it’s great to share that with everyone. I’m proud of it, but I have to grow, too, as a person.”

Here is a recent photo of Strug:

Kerry Strug Today

Another article in the Sunday Living section caught my eye, too.  The article, “Brat Backlash,” discusses the annoyance of toddlers and small children who are not properly taught how to act in public.  I don’t take my children to restaurants any fancier than Olive Garden, and I don’t take them to events that I know will bore them.  I don’t take my kids to movies where the expectation is to be quiet (even though they are fairly quiet at the movies) — I take them to kids’ movies during matinee hours, when I know lots of other kids will also be present.  If my kids decide to be brats in public and will not respond to correction, they are removed from the setting.  Why other folks cannot be similarly considerate, I have no idea.  Once when we were at TGIFridays, a family nearby had two children older than Dylan and Maggie.  They were running around, getting in the way, making noise.  Maggie kept looking at Steve and me.  She asked us why the kids were not sitting down.  She was openly bothered by how they were acting and even attempted to correct them.  Knowing this behavior would be perceived as rude by the family (no matter how rude they were being), we shushed her and said quietly it was up to their parents to tell them to stop.  Which, I might add, they never did (of course).  I think if a five-year-old can look at a couple of kids and determine they are not behaving in public, adults should have no problem.  The next time I see something like that happening, I plan to complain to the manager.  My kids are not perfect, but they know how to behave when we go out somewhere, and I have been approached on more than one occasion and told by a complete stranger that my kids were well-behaved.  I don’t have a regular babysitter, so if we have to go somewhere that isn’t at least somewhat kid-friendly, we just don’t go.  We may not have planned our kids, but we chose to have them, and that means we take responsibility for them, including teaching them how to behave when they go out.  I am constantly dismayed by the large number of parents who refuse to teach their children how to behave in public and refuse to leave them at home.  Folks, you have to do one or the other.

Blogging Minutiae

We had a little bit of a reprieve from the heat today as it was cloudy and a bit rainy. I took Maggie to the doctor to have her hearing tested. I was surprised to learn they were open on Saturdays. Now we just have to have her teeth checked at the dentist, and she’ll be ready for school registration.

I couldn’t sleep last night. My sleeping schedule always gets messed up during the summer. I am, I suppose, naturally predisposed toward being a night person, but it doesn’t make me feel good about myself. It makes me feel lazy. Logically, I don’t know why it should, as I get the same stuff done on the night shift as I do through the school year (work aside, which can’t be helped as school is out). Maybe it is something in my old Southern farmer blood that insists one must be up with the chickens in order to be a productive member of society. I think it makes me feel kind of blue to be on this schedule. It is sort of a matter of my mind fighting a losing battle with my body.

In the mail today I received my two complimentary author’s copies of English Journal, July 2006 in which my article appears on p. 33. It’s very exciting for me to be published in what is possibly the most influential journal for English teachers. I have pullout quotes and a minibiography and everything!

I was thinking about my great-great grandmother, Stella Bowling Cunningham, again. I don’t know why I am so curious about her in particular among all of my ancestors. Maybe because she was a teacher. But I have had other teachers in the family who don’t pique my interest. I think it might be the journal. I have a photocopy of a journal she kept in 1894-1895. In it, she records mostly minutiae, such as what she purchased that day and how much it cost, who came to visit and what they did, and that sort of thing. Yet mingled in there are significant events, such as her wedding and the death of her grandmother. It’s incredible to be able to read it. I find the smallest detail fascinating. I have struggled with the “who cares” factor with this blog. It isn’t that it bothers me that I don’t have many readers. Some days, I just find myself saying why bother to post that? The fact is, this is my journal. The difference between mine and Stella’s is that I know people look at it, so I have this “audience” hurdle to get over that Stella didn’t. However, Stella could little have realized how special and important someone — perhaps her great-great granddaughter — would find her journal. So from here on in, I hope to post more often, but I can’t promise that it won’t be about what I bought and how much it cost or who came over and what they did.

MySpace Update

Recently I told you about obtaining a MySpace page. I figured I would share my thoughts since I’ve now had it for a couple of weeks. First of all, it has done more to help me connect with old friends in a short two weeks than having my own domain has done in two years. Unfortunately, folks just don’t think about looking for you on Google. I can’t blame them. I didn’t think of looking for some of the folks I found there that way. However, it is fairly easy to look through folks attached to your old high school and go, “I remember that person!” then ask to be friended.

Up until I got a MySpace, I heard from exactly one person who found my blog looking for graduates of Warner Robins High, class of 1990. After I got a MySpace, I found three folks I went to high school with. I had a nice long e-conversation with an old classmate named Lisa. I was silently friended by a girl who I was best friends with my senior year (I say silent because I haven’t had a response to my “hello” message, nor did she exactly accept my friend request; instead she sent me one, which I accepted). I also found a friend of mine from Anaheim High before I moved to Georgia. I was also immediately found by two online buddies since my Diaryland days — Dana and Crankydragon. Just this evening I found an elementary school friend I’d been trying to find for years on Google.

I have figured something out — those guys who run MySpace are geniuses. They realized that a lot of people would set up something like a MySpace page when they might feel intimidated by even a Blogspot or LiveJournal. It seems like a lot of people who have MySpaces don’t even use the blog feature. I didn’t intend to, but I found I couldn’t let it sit dormant. I post just quizzes and stuff there that I feel are too trivial to waste space here.

As of right now, I don’t have any intentions of “pimping out” my MySpace. There seems to be no end to seizure-inducing backgrounds, and I don’t believe I’ll add to them. I did choose a tune by the Lost Boys, but I suppose that’s as fancy as I’ll get. I can get my creative layout groove on here on the domain I actually pay for, right? In the immortal words of Cranky on her MySpace blog,

I guess I could post here. I mean, though, why bother? I own my own domain, and it has been royally neglected since the little parasite was born. If I actually post something here, crankydragon.net might get all pissy and come over here and kick some myspace ass.

Frankly, I want to see the crankydragon.net/crankydragon myspace smackdown.

Anyway, I don’t see it replacing my blogs — any of them — but for social networking, which is how MySpace bills itself — I have to say it’s pretty good (despite frequent server hiccups).

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Star Trek

My dad got me interested in Star Trek when I was a teenager. We used to watch the new episodes of Star Trek: TNG when it was still on. Later, when I went to college, I discovered other fans among the girls in my dorm, and we used to gather on Saturday nights, when new episodes aired, and watch together. I really enjoyed the show a great deal, but I confess I was never able to translate my admiration for Trek into its other franchises. I didn’t care for the orginal series, though I did like Star Trek IV: The Voyage Home and Star Trek VI: The Undiscovered Country. I initially tried to watch DS-9 and Voyager, but couldn’t get into them, even when some of my favorite characters from the other series became characters on those shows (Lt. Worf is one of my favorite characters). I also couldn’t get into Enterprise, but it seems like I’m not alone in that.

I discovered some time ago that Spike shows a three-hour block of TNG reruns in the afternoon. Recently, I found out that G4 shows the reruns for two hours in the evening, too. I suppose there is such a thing as too much Trek. However, whenever I find sites on the Internet, it never ceases to amaze me how developed and fully realized the Trek world is. I suppose one could argue it is the largest and most famous “fandom” currently in existence.

I spent way too long on Wikipedia last night, reading about Trek. It’s funny — the way articles are linked encourages you to flip from one to another to another. Before I knew it, I had become seriously embroiled. In the process, I discovered there is a Star Trek wiki called Memory Alpha. It’s really quite good and extremely comprehensive. It’s kind of nice to imagine a future in which humanity might be like those representatives from the Enterprise.

Benjamin Hendrickson

Benjamin HendricksonOK, I haven’t watched soaps regularly in about 10 years. They come on during the day, and I haven’t been a stay-at-home-mom since 1996, when I went back to school to finish my education degree. I know it takes only weeks to get sucked back into the world of any soap, but initially, you just don’t know what the hell is going on and things are tough to follow.

My grandmother has watched All My Children, As the World Turns, and Guiding Light. When I spent summers in her care while my mom was at work or when we had a day off from school, we watched her “stories” with her. Later on, when I was a SAHM, I picked up the same three soaps because there was nothing else on during the day, and at least I knew who some of the characters on these three soaps were.

I was reading the AJC the other day, and there was an obituary for Benjamin Hendrickson, who played Hal Munson on As the World Turns, one of the soaps I watched. He committed suicide — friends attributed it to long-standing depression after the death of his mother in 2003.

It’s weird. When you watch soaps for an extended period of time, you become so invested in those characters. I remember when I was a SAHM, I had a friend who was also a SAHM, and we watched the same soaps. We used to call each other and watch together over the phone. It was really fun. Hal Munson was one of my favorite characters on the show, and I couldn’t tell you why, really. I also liked the character who was his on again/off again wife, Barbara Ryan. I always thought she was so sophisticated and pretty. I wonder how ATWT is going to handle the actor’s death, because from what I was able to gather, the soap was in the midst of a storyline involving the death of his character’s daughter.

At any rate, considering I haven’t followed his adventures for 10 years, I was moved when I heard about his death. Rest in peace.

Summer Stuff

I have actually made a unit lesson plan and done a few single day lesson plans, so I’m not being completely lazy. Aside from that, I’m just writing. Not much here, I guess, but I’ve been busier than usual on my other blogs.

At the Pensieve, I’ve recently posted about J.K. Rowling’s interview on the Richard & Judy show in the UK, the potion Dumbledore drank in the cave in Half-Blood Prince, and Draco Malfoy. I just completed a re-read of the Harry Potter series, so I’ve been a bit busier over there than usual. Oh, and the Pensieve turned two years old on June 23.

At my genealogy blog, I posted what I think is a kind of funny deconstruction of how I’m related to Mark Twain. A lot of people criticize genealogists for looking for famous folks in their family tree. I still laugh at the way I figured this one out.

At my education blog, which turned a year old on June 25, I have recently posted on the following topics:

There’s a lot there, as I have been doing the majority of my writing there for the last month.

I can’t remember if I said it here or not, but I also spent a week at a Schools Attuned workshop in Charlotte, NC. I learned a lot and may even earn a bunch of CEU’s out of the deal when I complete a few other requirements.

I have also finally started the summer reading I need to do to prepare for school.

I suppose I’ve been staying fairly busy.